Boy, you've really seen the light alright. First you make the choice to flirt with things that you admit caused complete disaster earlier in your life, and now you're asking about soiling the sanctity of your marriage.Keyser Soze wrote:I thought I would start a new thread on another issue. An age old one in fact. I guess the only reason I am doing it on this forum, even though it might be innappropriate, is because of the anonymity here and some of you have some interesting opinions. So here goes:
I am a married man, and love my wife immensly!!! I have always been faithful to her and knocked back many opportunities of casual sex with many women since being married. But recently this totally gorgeous lady is making it obvious to me that she is there available for the taking. She has also made it clear to me that she wants no commitment or involvement, just a bit of fun. I have to admit I am tempted. She is that gorgeous!!!
I fully realise that morally it's not on, but shit I am only human!! On the otherhand, my wife doesn't deserve me being unfaithful to her, even though she would probably never find out. My wife is totally committed to me and faithful without any doubt whatsoever, so she deserves the same from me. Plus if the impossible happened that my wife was ever unfaithful to me, well I'd be devestated!!!! As she would if it was the other way around. But AAAAAAGH!!! This woman trying to get it on with me is so beautiful and sexy!!!! Part of me thinks, you have only one life, grab the opportunity and part of me thinks I might not be able to deal with the guilt and that I might burn in hell for it (catholic upbringing).
There's a reason why all of this activity is happening right in a row, and it's because your head, for whatever reason, is not right. If you have medical benefits I recommend talking it out with a shrink. Obviously, life's blessings to you are not enough and you need to address the cause of that instead of turning into a total self-destructive hedonist.
What's next, "I don't have enough money so I was thinking of robbing a bank"?